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Did you see that Allianz Arena was sold out for Sundayâs NFL game?
Thatâs the stadium in Munich Germany, BTW.
Did you also hear the NFL will play 8 international games next season? Playing overseas and internationally isnât a new development. Every major professional sport has games or matches scheduled outside the US.
This is just a reminder that if youâre looking for a topic people are talking about worldwide, sports can fit the bill.
Here are a few sports topics making news this week.
Youâre probably not lacking for obvious conversation topics this week, but you might need a respite from the ones that will dominate the news cycle for the next several days.
Thatâs where sports comes in. A non-partisan topic that can help you steer the conversation toward something a little less serious than other storylines at hand.
Usually, Iâm reminding you that you donât have to stick to sports when using these sports conversation starters, but this week you might just want to focus on sports and these topics making news this week.
I like to have a recipe that works. Itâs why my favorite cookbooks have so many dogeared corners marking my go-to meals.
Itâs also why I turn to sports as my go-to conversation starter. It works every time because sports opens the door to a number of additional talking points. Did you see the note about how many Uncrustables are consumed by NFL teams? (For the record itâs my go-to snack at halftime too.) The ability to branch out and incorporate other topics is one of the reason sports small talk is a winning recipe every time. Here are a few sports headlines you can use this week:
Thereâs always more to sports than the game itself. Sports fans often feel a personal connection to their favorite team or player and the way they talk about their favorite team is part of their personal brand. Just a reminder to listen for more than details about the game. There is lots of personal information that comes through in sports conversations that can be useful in building business relationships.
And with that here are a few sports topics you can use to strike up conversations this week:
When it comes to small talk you donât have to chase the conversation. Just let it come to you. If you want to initiate the interaction go ahead, but you can just as easily be in the passenger seat. Either way itâs helpful if youâre prepared with something to say.
Sports fits the bill for me and it works for a LOT of people youâll encounter too. Itâs why this list of sports conversation starters can be helpful and keep you in the loop with big storylines this week.
In sports you often hear about the dangers of âtrying to do too much.â In theory working harder trying harder sounds like a good thing, but it rarely leads to the intended results.
I think you could say the same thing about small talk. Donât try to do too much. Keep it simple, and come prepared with sports topics like these.
In business and sports we spend a lot of time talking about results and outcomes. Thereâs nothing wrong with that, but thereâs so much more we could incorporate into the conversation. For example, if youâre talking about the games you watched this weekend you could mention who you watched the game with or which friends you were texting with during the game.
If youâre talking about the end of the baseball season and how your team fared you could include how long youâve been a fan of the team.
In both of those examples, one additional detail opens an entirely new conversation path and makes it easier to engage in small talk.
These sports topics can get the ball rolling.
There are a number of reasons people avoid or dread small talk. Some believe itâs a waste of time (itâs not, unless you want it to be) and others are intimidated or anxious talking to people they donât know.
Which is a bit of a Catch-22. Small talk helps build relationships. You wonât move out of that awkward stage of getting to know people without those small interactions. Hereâs how you can make things easier â look for the sports fans and ask about the game.
You probably know which colleagues follow sports and sports fans can be easy to spot when theyâre wearing team/school logos. Tee up a conversation about their favorite team and you wonât need to search for what to say next. And donât tune out because you think sports doesnât matter at work. Youâre listening for information thatâs useful in follow up conversations and segues into other topics, when theyâve finished their sports comments, of course.
If you want to contribute more than your listening skills to the conversation...
I always get excited for the start of the NFL season and based on the numbers Iâm not the only one. The NFL averaged 21 million viewers per game during the leagueâs opening week last week. Those numbers are up 12% from last year.
That means even if you didnât watch the NFL your colleagues and friends probably did. Viewership numbers will fluctuate throughout the season, but there is a huge appetite for football and the NFL.
Fans arenât just fans on game day. Theyâre fans every day of the week and they often want a chance to talk about their favorite teams, players, outcome, etc⌠Keep that in mind if youâre looking for easy ways to start conversations this week. Get things rolling with questions like:
Or you can use any of the topics listed below.
For years I heard Pete Carroll say, âItâs not how you start, itâs how you finish.â It was certainly true for the Seahawks game I covered Sunday and itâs often true in small talk.
Informal interactions can be clunky, especially when few people strategize small talk. But fear not. Contrary to popular belief, you donât have to make a great first impression to leave âem on a high note. All you need is a versatile conversation topic that leads to natural follow up conversations. Sports does that, and the topics listed below can help this week.
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